14w3d

Dh and I decided to ask for a consult to the ob here who does amnios and discuss stats with him.  My family doc said standard of care is an amnio for anyone over 35.  We're both torn, so we decided for an office consult in order to make an informed decision.  He's the ob who followed me for Nolan's pg and did all of my infertility stuff before I went to the RE, so he knows us and we trust him. 

Doc is also calling in an abx for an apparent bladder infection from Monday's appt-not sure why its taken him two days to read the dip stick results, but whatever.  That would explain my right sided pain for two weeks and the "cough" issue;)  And the chills at night.  Sure hope I haven't let it become a kidney infection, but I suspect I'd be sicker than this if it has. 

Still thinking I might be feeling some movement, but not consistently, maybe once this bug clears up it'll be easier to feel babe. 

I tried to do some shopping today, but I really don't want to buy anything until I know gender results, and I guess with amnio that could be sooner than mid March, couldn't it?